How to find joy and identify โ€˜joy blockersโ€™, from a trauma expert who wrote a book on it


Halfway through writing her new book, The Joy Reset, grief coach Dr MaryCatherine McDonald nearly gave up.

A close friend โ€“ young and seemingly healthy โ€“ was diagnosed with glioblastoma, an aggressive form of brain cancer, and given 12 to 18 months to live.

โ€œI wanted to quit,โ€ McDonald says. โ€œI started thinking, โ€˜Yeah, I donโ€™t actually believe in this.โ€™โ€

But she did not abandon the manuscript. In the midst of her doubt, a quiet realisation surfaced โ€“ and it became the heartbeat of the book.

โ€œI realised then that joy doesnโ€™t need you to believe in it,โ€ she says. โ€œWhether you want it to or not, joy will find you.โ€

โ€œJoy is right here, and it will always find you,โ€ says Dr MaryCatherine McDonald. Photo: MaryCatherine McDonald
โ€œJoy is right here, and it will always find you,โ€ says Dr MaryCatherine McDonald. Photo: MaryCatherine McDonald

That idea โ€“ that joy is not a naive escape but a resilient force โ€“ pulses through The Joy Reset: Six Ways Trauma Steals Happiness and How to Win it Back.

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